Thursday, March 24, 2011

Do You Pray?

Dear Friend and Devoted Reader, I am selfishly going to tell you a very sad thing. I am not doing it to make you feel bad or cry; I am doing it to plead for your help--in prayer.

Meet Ethan:

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On Sunday, Ethan, was his normal, energetic seven-year-old self. His mom put him to bed but was woken up in the middle of the night by his screaming. She went into his room and found him unconscious. After he was transported to the hospital, it was discovered that he had blood on his brain. A diagnosis of Arteriovenous Malformation near his brain stem followed. (Basically, when his little body formed years ago in the womb some blood vessels tangled, compromising their structural integrity. Sunday night, those vessels burst, causing blood to be released in his brain.) Not good, to say the least.

Ethan is fighting for his life and he can use all the help he can get. That’s where you and I come in. My little family and our extended family have said countless prayers on his behalf and I am hoping that you will join us in praying for Ethan’s strength and for his doctors’ and parents’ wisdom to know what is best for him.

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Here is a little picture of my Teensy with her arm around her cousin, Ethan. That’s right, Ethan is our cousin. He is my kids’ second cousin and, through marriage, he is my first cousin once removed. That may sound like a distant relative, but believe me, it is not. This child’s family is near and dear to my heart.


Ethan’s mom is my dear friend and college roommate, Kimber. I have such a soft spot in my heart for that girl. She was a great roommate—fun, considerate, sharing, etc. And most importantly, she introduced me to her “cute cousin, Michael” the moment he moved to town. The very best things in my life—my husband and children—are a direct result of my association with Kimber. If I can repay a small part of that by soliciting for prayers on behalf of her sweet little boy, I am happy to do it.

Thank you for your prayers and good thoughts for Ethan.

9 comments:

Amber Mc said...

We are praying with you.

Rebecca said...

This just breaks my heart....you do everything you possibly can to protect your children, but there are somethings you can't control, that you can protect them from because you don't know it's there. There family and yours will be in my prayers...may He speak peace and comfort to your souls.

Wendy said...

I am in awe of the suffering that mothers endure when things they cannot control afflict their children. What Kimber is feeling I can only imagine. And Ethan. My heart goes out to them.

Corinne said...

Oh friend. I'm thinking about you and your family and hoping for the best.

Melodie said...

I am praying for Kimber and Ethan and all of you. I hope that he makes a speedy and full recovery, and that you all feel comfort and peace.

Tracy said...

So sorry for what you're all going through. It's unimaginable. You're all in our prayers.

IT'S JUST US! said...

We love you Kimber! We are praying for your family and son daily.

noname said...

Be blessed with His grace Ethan. I prayer that it is His will that you are healed completely little man X

Dawn said...

Mindy... Do you have an update on Ethan?

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